The precise explanations of the Chanmyay method loop in my mind, making me question every movement and sensation as I struggle to stay present. It’s 2:04 a.m. and the floor feels colder than it should. A blanket is draped over my shoulders—not because the room is freezing, but to buffer against that specific, bone-deep stillness of the night. My neck’s stiff. I tilt it slightly, hear a soft crack, then immediately wonder if I just broke mindfulness by moving. I find the mental judgment far more taxing than the actual stiffness.
The looping Echo of "Simple" Instructions
I am haunted by the echoes of Satipatthana lectures, their structure playing on a loop. The commands are simple: observe, know, stay clear, stay constant. In theory, the words are basic, but in practice—without the presence of a guide—they become incredibly complex. In this isolation, the clarity of the teaching dissolves into a hazy echo, and my uncertainty takes over.
I attempt to watch the breath, but it feels constricted and jagged, as if resisting my attention. I feel a constriction in my chest and apply a label—"tightness"—only to immediately doubt the timing and quality of that noting. I am caught in a familiar loop of self-audit, driven by the memory of how exact the noting is meant to be. Without external guidance, the search for "correct" mindfulness feels like a test I am constantly failing.
Knowledge Evaporates When the Body Speaks
I feel a lingering, dull pain in my left leg; I make an effort to observe it without flinching. The mind keeps drifting off to phrases I’ve read before, things about direct knowing, bare awareness, not adding stories. A quiet chuckle escapes me, and I immediately try to turn that sound into a meditative object. I try to categorize the laugh—is it neutral or pleasant?—but it's gone before the mind can file it away.
A few hours ago, I was reading about the Dhamma and felt convinced that I understood the path. Sitting now, that confidence is gone. Knowledge evaporates fast when the body starts complaining. The physical reality of my knee is far more compelling than any diagram. I search for a reason for the pain, but the silence offers no comfort.
The Heavy Refusal to Comfort
My posture is a constant struggle; I relax my shoulders, but they reflexively tighten again. The breath stutters. I feel irritation rising for no clear reason. I recognize it. Then I recognize recognizing it. I grow weary of this constant internal audit. This is the "heavy" side of the method: it doesn't give you a hug; it just gives you a job. There is no "it's okay" in this tradition. There is only the instruction to see what is true, over and over.
A mosquito is buzzing nearby; I endure the sound for as long as I can before finally striking out. Annoyance. Relief. A flash of click here guilt. All of it comes and goes fast. I don’t keep up. I never keep up. I recognize my own lack of speed, a thought that arrives without any emotional weight.
Experience Isn't Neat
The diagrams make the practice look organized: body, feelings, mind, and dhammas. Direct experience is a tangle where the boundaries are blurred. I can't tell where the "knee pain" ends and the "irritation" begins. My thoughts are literally part of my stiff neck. I try to just feel without the "story," but my mind is a professional narrator and refuses to quit.
I break my own rule and check the time: it's 2:12 a.m. The seconds continue regardless of my scrutiny. The pain in my leg moves just a fraction. I find the change in pain frustrating; I wanted a solid, static object to "study" with my mind. Instead, it remains fluid, entirely unconcerned with my spiritual labels.
The technical thoughts eventually subside, driven out by the sheer intensity of the somatic data. Heat. Pressure. Tingling. Breath brushing past the nose. I stay with what’s loudest. My mind drifts and returns in a clumsy rhythm. There is no breakthrough tonight.
I don’t feel like I understand anything better tonight. I am simply present in the gap between the words of the teachers and the reality of my breath. I am sitting in the middle of this imperfect, unfinished experience, letting it be exactly as it is, because reality doesn't need my approval to be real.